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Tue, 13 May 2025 12:07:29 -0700
marlon from private IP, post #12162437
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persona
Seems so weird to me, how a person can act nice for years and then
turn into a monster, and stay that way forever, or until u give up & leave.
Have to admit, the nice guy act seemed real phony & pretentious to me from
day one, and looking back at the emails we sent each other during those
days, there was nothing i could do wrong. then last year something happened,
it was harmless oversight on my part, and the guy has been a real jerk
ever since. he just doesn't let up, i mean every time i say something, he
comes back like a total bitch, snapping at me and giving me lip.
How does anyone pull this off? I can't do it, i use the same persona for
everyone i know, i don't act real nice to some people and real mean to
others.
Tue, 13 May 2025 12:41:09 -0700
zerosugar from private IP
Reply #19542494
sorry about that. incivility is at an all time high. i also wish there was an answer to workplace bullying. unfortunately, if you try to report the bullies so
they are held accountable, they turn the tables.
Tue, 13 May 2025 12:43:27 -0700
zerosugar from private IP
Reply #17702919
i know of a woman who was reported for her behavior then lied and alleged a racial slur was made which is nutty because she is white and the other subject was
white. all that was said that could be “racial” was the use of the term “undocumented.”
technically, an undocumented person can be any race.
Tue, 13 May 2025 12:44:44 -0700
marlon from private IP
Reply #14891446
seems they are playing the game of respect, where people suck up to u more if u treat them with less respect.
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