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Wed, 22 Oct 2025 13:21:38 -0700
marlon from private IP, post #14385686
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my role as caregiver
my sister says i lie when i say i am a caregiver for our mom.
true, all i am allowed to do is watch her, but i'm the one who
had her sent to the hospital for the cellulitis infection.
she didn't want to send her, we argued about it. our mom
suffered for weeks, i was sneaking extra painkillers to her, the bitch
kept arguing, saying only two pills a day. our mom was up all
night crying from pain. it was hell, all because the bitch won't
wipe her butt , so she had diaper rash , she said she would miss out
on Medicare $$ i mom was to the hospital. it takes two sets of eyes.
Wed, 22 Oct 2025 17:32:50 -0700
zerosugar from private IP
Reply #12157941
Thats super sad. These types of dynamics are common in many families. However, you need to tell your sister that if your mom is rejecting your care and won't
let you change her, then what can you do? All you can really do is other stuff around the home or run errands then.
Wed, 22 Oct 2025 17:58:00 -0700
marlon from private IP
Reply #14421382
just wish my mom could get a real bath instead of the lame wipedown with a moist rag. been over seven years she had a real bath
Sun, 26 Oct 2025 21:09:47 -0700
zerosugar from private IP
Reply #19266506
wow that’s sad she can’t get a real bath. can’t a shower bench be ordered for her?
Sun, 26 Oct 2025 21:40:56 -0700
marlon from private IP
Reply #18057338
we have a shower bench. the bitch is too lazy to give mom a bath. she's glued to that smartphone, even while she changes diaper. i wanna grab it & smash it,
it is so annoying
Sun, 26 Oct 2025 22:41:17 -0700
zerosugar from private IP
Reply #14247125
that’s sad. i’m sure your mom would feel a lot better with a real bath. it makes them feel refreshed. even when my grandmother wasn’t in the mood, we
would always convince her to let us give her a bath and then she felt much better.
Sun, 26 Oct 2025 22:43:18 -0700
zerosugar from private IP
Reply #15442626
old people really like heating pads and/or hot water bottles too. it gives them comfort.
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