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Sat, 10 Jan 2026 15:48:58 -0800 zerosugar from private IP, post #17898270 /all 550-pound NY lawyer accused of stalking mistress clashes with country club guests in poolside Florida fight https://nypost.com/2026/01/10/us-news/550-pound-ny-lawyer-accused-of-stalked-mistress-clashes-with-country-club-guests-in-florida/ #LawFirm #News #Romance Sat, 10 Jan 2026 16:02:52 -0800 zerosugar from private IP Reply #15771221 This was one heavyweight fight. A morbidly-obese, married Long Island lawyer once accused of tormenting his much younger lover made waves at his Florida country club on New Year’s Eve — grabbing a man’s phone and tossing it in a pool in an ugly confrontation over poolside lounge chairs. Video of the wet-and-wild Dec. 31 incident shows 550-pound Ronald David Ingber towering over two people next to the pool at the Wycliffe Country Club in Palm Beach County, which has an initial platinum membership fee of $95,000. Ingber, 52, can be seen grabbing a younger man’s hand before ripping away his phone and throwing it in the water. Long Island lawyer, Ronald David Ingber, was caught on video grabbing another man’s phone and tossing it in the drink at the $95,000-a-year Wycliffe Country Club. Obtained by the NY Post The 49-second clip shows the stunned man frantically backing away, yelling and pointing at Ingber, shouting, “You f–king…!” “What are you doing?” the man’s older female companion yelped at Ingber. “Can you get my phone please?” the man, clad in a grey T-shirt and black shorts, asks a swimmer before turning to staff. “He threw my phone in the pool!” the man can be heard shouting in the footage. “F–k you, send this f–ker to jail!” Ingber briefly stared at him before turning away and sitting down as staffers arrived to separate the trio, the bystander footage shows. A second clip shows another view of the incident — with the younger man and the older woman squabbling with someone lounging by the pool — claiming the man had stolen their seats. As the clash unfolded, the woman loudly turned to people sitting nearby. “Are you responsible for this?” she demanded, pointing to the alleged seat-thief. The poolside beef didn’t initially involved the 550-pound Ingber, his lawyer said. Obtained by the NY Post Ingber, a father of two, then got up and confronted the pair, grabbing the phone, another clip showed. Ingber was sued in October in Brooklyn Federal Court by his paramour, who claimed in court papers he smelled, gave her herpes, and tried to torture her by setting up secret cameras in her apartment, a tracker in her car, and a keystroke recorder on her computer. Ingber has vehemently denied the allegations in the lawsuit, which is pending. The incident at the country club, where annual dues for top tier members are nearly $22,000, was self-defense, Ingber insisted to The Post. “I was approached. I thought somebody waved a weapon in front of me,” he said, insisting the club has more videos. “And I disarmed them, period.” The attorney said he did not know the man and woman, who were yelling profanities and screaming in front of children and families in an apparent dispute over stolen poolside spots. The pair were arguing with someone sitting next to his family, then began yelling at Ingber’s wife, who didn’t know the people involved. Ingber said he was defending himself from people who were screaming profanities in front of families with kids. Obtained by the NY Post “I defended myself,” he said. The confrontation was a battle over pool chairs, “a situation that went unchecked for an extended period despite staff presence,” a lawyer for Ingber told The Post. The Ingber family wasn’t involved in the original dispute and “became collateral targets of the offender’s anger,” attorney Richard Portale added. “When one individual advanced aggressively toward my client, while raising an unidentified object toward his face, he reacted instinctively to protect himself, his wife and children and to stop what appeared to be an imminent threat,” Portale said. “This situation was spiraling out of control and could have ended very differently, but thankfully no one was hurt and that is what matters most.” The club downplayed the New Year’s Eve episode. This was an isolated incident between two individuals that was addressed promptly by club management. There were no injuries and no ongoing safety concerns,” general manager Rob Martin said in a statement. “The matter was handled internally in accordance with our club policies and [Home Owners Association] regulations.” Sat, 10 Jan 2026 16:07:17 -0800 zerosugar from private IP Reply #16695472 This is the attorney guy btw https://www.nylawnet.com/team/ronald-d-ingber/ Sat, 10 Jan 2026 16:14:57 -0800 zerosugar from private IP Reply #16071466 Oh my. There is another article about him from October 550-pound NY lawyer allegedly stalked mistress, blasted out revenge porn after breakup https://nypost.com/2025/10/11/us-news/obese-new-york-lawyer-stalked-girlfriend-blasted-out-revenge-porn-after-breakup-lawsuit/ He did this with a heavy heart. A smelly, morbidly-obese married Long Island lawyer allegedly tormented his much younger lover for years — setting up secret cameras in her apartment, a tracker in her car, and a keystroke recorder on her computer. Ronald David Ingber allegedly manipulated the Bergen County woman until she was isolated from her family and dependent on him, then blasted out sexual photos and videos of her to friends and family when she tried to leave, she said in a lawsuit. Ronald Ingber allegedly planted secret cameras in the woman’s apartment, a GPS tracker in her car and a keystroke recorder on her computer, she claimed. He denied the allegations. Ronald Ingber/ Facebook Having sex with Ingber, 52, was not easy, according to the victim, identified in Brooklyn Federal Court papers only as Jane Doe. “At more than 550 pounds, Ingber had difficulty cleaning himself, causing [the accuser] to develop painful boils following sexual activity,” the 37-year-old said in court papers. “The duty was not an easy or enjoyable one . . . between the smells and rashes.” She also accused the father of two of giving her herpes. The lawyer allegedly told his mistress that he was in the midst of divorcing his wife, she said in court papers. The pair met online in 2018, with Ingber claiming he was in the midst of divorcing his wife, Jane Doe said. The attorney allegedly convinced her to leave her job and move into an apartment he rented for her in Nassau County. Ingber monitored, manipulated, and controlled every aspect of [her] life,” even bizarrely convincing her they were under criminal investigation in New Jersey — and that he would protect her, according to the lawsuit. “Ingber’s covert surveillance was extensive and inescapable,” she said in legal papers. When she tried to move out or end the relationship, which dragged on for four years, Ingber would convince her that he was “her only ally,” even though “he was actually the one responsible for her misery.” He hacked her devices, she said. With access to her email, Ingber “or someone acting on [his] behalf began interfering with . . . cell phones, enabling him to view outgoing and incoming phone calls, delete photographs, and access and delete other content.” The woman claims Ingber continues to send her unhinged messages. Sat, 10 Jan 2026 17:50:13 -0800 marlon from private IP Reply #15264402 a 550lb sugar-daddy. damn Sat, 10 Jan 2026 18:49:28 -0800 whiteguyinchina from private IP Reply #16042372 White people behaving badly Sat, 10 Jan 2026 19:23:06 -0800 marlon from private IP Reply #10140410 easy, fat boy how many pullups can he do? don't matter one bit Sat, 10 Jan 2026 21:15:10 -0800 zerosugar from private IP Reply #15323314 As long as gold diggers exist, this guy will continue to get laid and then become obsessive when it becomes evident he is being juiced for money. Sat, 10 Jan 2026 21:49:51 -0800 whiteguyinchina from private IP Reply #10526854 Impressive he can walk at 550 His leg strength must be incredible Its like I was carrying 350 pound bag around all day Sat, 10 Jan 2026 22:22:22 -0800 zerosugar from private IP Reply #18178803 His legs actually look slim. Big people sometimes have strong legs because they carry the weight around. https://nypost.com/2025/10/11/us-news/obese-new-york-lawyer-stalked-girlfriend-blasted-out-revenge-porn-after-breakup-lawsuit/ Sat, 10 Jan 2026 22:31:27 -0800 zerosugar from private IP Reply #15831517 Here is his sexy pic.https://ibb.co/xKy12dB2 You know I remember the gold diggers used to compartmentalize and so did the sugar daddies. They would have their transactional stuff and then the gold digger would go back to her age appropriate bf and the sugar daddy would go back to his wife. The manosphere have brainwashed men into thinking gold diggers want something other than money and maybe these men don’t care if they are being used. Meanwhile, the level up coaches have convinced women that it doesn’t matter if you really like a guy. I feel level up dating coaches and manosphere are one and the same. Andrew Tate even said he liked gold diggers. He likes gold diggers because they are accessible to him and as long as he hoards money, he will never have to compete with Chads or work on his personality. That Big Ed and this attorney get women is proof real incels don’t exist. There are just voluntary celibates. Sat, 10 Jan 2026 22:33:49 -0800 zerosugar from private IP Reply #10624323 Level up coaches tell women to get a provider at all costs. Shera7 discourages women from dating handsome men and says ugly men are the genie in the bottle because they give you their credit card. The attorney isn’t ugly, but he is huge and if he smells then that’s a problem. Big Ed is just a gross guy even older than my mom trying to date girls young enough to be his daughters while calling them ugly, old, and fat. Sun, 11 Jan 2026 00:39:28 -0800 marlon from private IP Reply #12763047 ugly men are urban myth. low status men exist. they may lack influence, power, wealth & power, but looks don't matter to women. Sun, 11 Jan 2026 02:32:34 -0800 zerosugar from private IP Reply #15443161 @marlonTest looks absolutely do matter to women when they are selecting somebody they like. the level up dating gurus have convinced women that chemistry and looks don’t matter, but that leads to resentment eventually. Also if you see a woman in love with an ugly man, it’s because that’s her type and her vibe. Women do absolutely have types. In fact, unless you are dealing with a very poor woman or single mom in survival mode, very few Western women care about money in 2026. Unfortunately, there is no longer the compartmentalization of the trick vs lover and that’s problematic long term. Sun, 11 Jan 2026 02:34:07 -0800 zerosugar from private IP Reply #17750796 i still believe incels don’t exist. just men with very high standards. Sun, 11 Jan 2026 16:09:58 -0800 marlon from private IP Reply #17246401 very high standards, hmmmmReplies require login.