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Mon, 13 Apr 2026 11:19:16 -0700
whiteguyinchina from private IP, post #15360529
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Wily, what of China as a retirement spot?
I mean impossible for a non Chinese citizen i think but there are lots of excellent and cheap places, such as guilin or guiyang or even anji Hangzhou or some
other random 2 million person village that I dont know of
Mon, 13 Apr 2026 11:20:37 -0700
whiteguyinchina from private IP
Reply #18725567
I loved guilin and yangshuo, weather is tropical, food is plentiful, and I think a top end apartment in guiyang or guilin is like 1000 usd per month, other
expenses are nothing
Mon, 13 Apr 2026 14:38:15 -0700
marlon from private IP
Reply #17693619
how easy is it to lose your virginity in China?
not asking for a friend
Mon, 13 Apr 2026 15:47:49 -0700
whiteguyinchina from private IP
Reply #10221462
Depends if you pay for it or not
Either way I dont think its difficult
Fri, 17 Apr 2026 09:05:51 -0700
Exnite from private IP
Reply #10762972
Wily, what about this new “Lying Flat” slacker movement in China? Are Chinese Losers finally getting organized??
“Young Chinese are engaging in a quiet but profound, non-violent movement against societal pressures, characterized by "lying flat" (tang ping) and "letting
it rot" (bai lan). These trends reject extreme work cultures (996), intense competition, and high societal expectations in response to economic stagnation and
high youth unemployment.”
Fri, 17 Apr 2026 22:43:28 -0700
Wily from private IP
Reply #14931155
Lying flat is mostly urban middle-class Chinese, born 1990s or Gen Z.
There's a pretty classic case among my neighbors, Shanghainese girl who got a college degree in Germany, now lives with her parents and works 1 day per week in
an office.
Takes her overfed Labrador Retriever in a large dog stroller to said office, along with everywhere else she goes, which is like hiking in mountains or Buddhist
monasteries or anywhere, because the dog is her "boyfriend". The dog is actually not well trained because it probably thinks it's the alpha in the household.
She was dabbling in Christian revivalism (which is actually kind of "cool" in China because it's soft-banned) before getting back into Buddhism and meditation
retreats and yoga retreats. When her parents Die she will spend the rest of their money within 7 years, I believe, and then move to said Western Region of China
and become Impoverished.
Fri, 17 Apr 2026 22:48:31 -0700
Wily from private IP
Reply #10829258
I once also tried out a nanny who lasted like 2 days in our place. She was similar, pretty privileged background, got into hardcore Buddhism / yoga and got
tricked into, not even kidding, going to India and giving all of her money to a guru over the course of a few years. While staying in a 5-star hotel in India,
she sold her parents' apartment in Guangzhou and transferred about $1 million to said guru. She then had literally no money and had to get transported back
during the pandemic to China on a humanitarian flight.
She spent both of the two days not doing anything except cooking delicious Cantonese dishes, which I approved of, and she actually spoke good English and tried
to chat with me a lot. Even though she was overweight and rather ugly, this pissed off my Waifu, who then Fired her.
Sat, 18 Apr 2026 08:38:39 -0700
marlon from private IP
Reply #13272024
a fat Chinese girl? never saw one myself
Sat, 18 Apr 2026 08:46:09 -0700
zerosugar from private IP
Reply #18328955
@marlonTest See Li Wenwen. She has muscle from the weight lifting, but you can
see she was a naturally robust type.
Sat, 18 Apr 2026 08:48:32 -0700
zerosugar from private IP
Reply #12949756
@WilyTest It seems you really connected with this woman despite her not being the
most attractive from your description. I think connection is important above looks. Maybe your wife just saw a bond.
Sat, 18 Apr 2026 08:49:18 -0700
zerosugar from private IP
Reply #10408800
Attraction can build too after connection provided somebody is not hideously ugly or bad hygiene.
Sun, 19 Apr 2026 07:03:30 -0700
Wily from private IP
Reply #17768823
🤣
Nope just nope. She was Gross.
Also, fidelity and avoiding random desperate Women are ways to keep my sanity in China.
Sun, 19 Apr 2026 08:02:11 -0700
zerosugar from private IP
Reply #19789512
Oh wow!
Sun, 19 Apr 2026 08:29:28 -0700
whiteguyinchina from private IP
Reply #11633438
Zerosugar nailed it.
There is a Canadian woman living on an island in thailand and running a youtube channel. She married a lazy thai man who sleeps all day whilst she works.
https://m.youtube.com/@lillyslife
Anyway they have a nanny from Myanmar or Laos or something and it is extremely obvious the man is sleeping with the nanny. The nanny touches the husband and is
all chatty with him. This is not nanny behavior.
The primary relationship for a nanny is with the wife. The nanny should be a non presence with the husband.
Wilys nanny spoke English with him, probably regaled him with travel stories, and cooked good food for him. This made her a threat which had to be nipped in the
bud, regardless of wilys libido.
Sun, 19 Apr 2026 12:03:42 -0700
zerosugar from private IP
Reply #17924844
What a couple. I accidentally responded in the other thread about them because I had a friend similar to this woman.
Sun, 19 Apr 2026 19:26:12 -0700
whiteguyinchina from private IP
Reply #14661819
https://youtu.be/jIqpovdiHrA?si=JN12k8zHbYcVysRe
Somewhere by the end of the video you can see the nanny
Like way too chatty
Husband sleeping during daytime
Don't want to judge in case he works late but come on its an island how late do restaurants open like 11 pm
I looked in the new video, nanny be gone
@17768823 zerosugar 🤣
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