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Wed, 08 Jul 2026 15:52:05 -0700
marlon from private IP, post #10924108
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Sugar asked me why I compare myself to others
It's fun that's why. When in public I stand out.
People are fat, breeders, worthless, even the big
Tall brawny german rednecks who do the most to keep our
World turning, they are in the trades vocational
That we need. Those guys could have been losers
Like me in the office but noooooo, they care only about
Making money so they can support all their girlfriends,
So fuck them.
But in an accounting office, it sucks. The Simp
In Charge takes the fun out of it, so I work from
Home now. Mr Simp says that young girl he just
Hired at 3x my pay is better than me, I want to
Reply like a smartass Im sure she is
Wed, 08 Jul 2026 16:05:38 -0700
zerosugar from private IP
Reply #19660603
In my conversations with a close friend of mine who constantly compares herself to others, I realized comparisons can be toxic. You have to live your life and
not worry about others. I had a bad day today, but thankfully am quitting my job.
Wed, 08 Jul 2026 16:12:52 -0700
zerosugar from private IP
Reply #17420904
I only had about one decent professor in law school. This guy genuinely listened to my problems. I even saw a tear in his eye when I explained what I was going
through. He really consoled me and I will always remember him. Other professors told me to seek therapy. When I started comparing myself to classmates and
spiraling that they may be further than me in outlining,this professor told me simple advice that worrying about them would never help me accomplish my goals.
After that, I stopped worrying and started excelling. I will never forget his advice and I apply it all the time. Competitive people are usually not happy
people.
Wed, 08 Jul 2026 16:53:16 -0700
TheImmigrant from private IP
Reply #15598851
@marlonTest what is your Income? Is it higher than mine (49,000k)? We are both
Gen X and therefore extremely poor irl.
@zerosugarTest lmao you tried using multiple professors as therapists when
that is not what they are fucking there for you idiot. It is not the job of a "decent professor" to listen to idiots imo.
Wed, 08 Jul 2026 17:03:49 -0700
zerosugar from private IP
Reply #19605512
hmm it worked. he recommended me to be ta.
Wed, 08 Jul 2026 17:16:03 -0700
zerosugar from private IP
Reply #19199927
the guy who told me to seek therapy was a boomer type who i tried to discuss a paper with and told him i had been having some issues that prevented me from
fully engaging in his class. he was pretty damn rude, but in general a miserable guy. i guess i am too polite to a point where if somebody trusts me with a
problem, i would never try to outsource them unless they were like telling me they were suicidal.
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