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Thu, 25 Apr 2024 16:02:10 -0700

whiteguyinchina from private IP
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Met my first sociopath 

Have you guys ever met one?

It's a family friend but my acquaintance. She is insane. But hides it extremely
well.

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Fri, 26 Apr 2024 07:15:26 -0700

zerosugar
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yes a former classmate of mine. when she was under 18, she definitely fit into
the category of conduct disorder. she was a year older than me and i got stuck
with her because she failed a grade. i can go on and on about her behavior and
her current situation, but the comment would be too long and too much gossip is
not nice. 

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Fri, 26 Apr 2024 11:21:38 -0700

zerosugar
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F*ck it. Here is a comment I wrote last night which I deleted because I felt it
was TMI, but because I’m not naming her or posting her pic or anything else,
nobody is harmed. 

Case 1: My ex bff frenemy who I will refer to as “M.” Now when she was under
18, she definitely fit into the conduct disorder category. She had no ability to
empathize with others. A thief, compulsive liar, and everything she did was for
her own self interest. She became friends with people just so she could use them
as stepping stones. Now she is a full blown sociopath. 4 kids with 3 guys. Never
married. My 400 pound neighbor who despite being rude sometimes is an all around
nice guy and one of my only long time friends in Chicago had the misfortune of
coming across her and this other girl T. I guess they are heavily into opioids
now and tried to sleep with him for drug money and even rob him. 

I was never supposed to be friends with M, but luck was not on my side during
this time. She was a year older than me and I had the misfortune of having her
in my class because she failed a year. She started to love bomb me.
Complimenting me all the time. I was so sweet back to her, but she only
pretended to be my friend. She secretly hated me. Other girls would tell ne
about all the shit she talked behind my back. She set me up to get beat up when
I was only 12. She picked me up from my house one day pretending like she wanted
to go for a walk. She was with this 15 year old baseball player girl. Imagine a
female baseball player. They brought me in an alley and the big girl who I had
never seen before just punched me in the face suddenly. Then they took off. Of
course M put her up to it because I never saw this girl in my life. During this
time, I never talked much to anybody expect for M as I was extremely shy. I
opened up when I became older. M saw me as somebody she could exploit. I
wasn’t her only victim though. There was another girl Emily who she also
abused. Emily and I both were even sexually assaulted by her. She would put our
hands by her vagina. She did this to me in the movie theatre once and would just
keep trying to sexually experiment with us even though we were younger and
inexperienced. She made out with us in the past then would try to make it seem
like we were the lesbians and would spread vicious rumors. She had lost her
virginity in like 8th grade! Shocking that she was having sex so young. 

M came from a very poor background. She was attractive with blonde hair and
green eyes and a warm complexion, but badly dressed and poor hygiene. Well, I
guess it’s all subjective. She had the potential to be pretty, but sometimes
her face looked ugly because of her evil nature. Although I found her pretty,
others would say she was ugly. She lived in a rented basement apartment with her
parents and brother. Even as a kid who still did not understand much about
social class and money, I remember being shocked at their living conditions. M
stole stuff from my house. She once even stole my birthday money and later I saw
she went and did her nails. No way her family would have given her the money at
the time.  

I never remember M going to church. She wasn’t an atheist or anything to my
knowledge and neither were her family, but it’s bizarre that she is the one
friend who I never talked about spirituality, God, or charity with. We never
even really talked about the holidays. Her mom was from downstate Illinois and
her father from Arkansas, so I’m assuming she came from a Protestant
background and usually these rural types are religious. When we were a little
older, M did once tear pages out of a Bible to roll a joint. 

By the time I was 18, I lost touch with all these girls. They would try to come
back into my life throughout the years, but I avoided them. I wasn’t desperate
for friends anymore and I mostly clung it I guys I dated. M became pregnant for
the first time at 18. She was baby sitting for this scum bag older albino
looking guy and she got pregnant by him. 

I really hate to gossip about this girl like this and I don’t want to make her
out to be a monster. She had a very hard life, but the way she treated people
who were kind to her is just sad.  I ran into her by chance in autumn of 2022.
She was acting  all nice and added me on FB. 

Just seeing her briefly affected me terribly. I started to have these terrible
flashbacks of when she got that girl to hit me when I was only 12. I started to
remember blood gushing from my nose onto the snow. I deleted her from FB. Her
oldest son is very sick and has muscular dystrophy. I just can’t imagine this
woman caring for a sick child. 

In 2009, I really helped her even though by this time we weren’t even talking
anymore and definitely no longer friends. She had moved out to Indiana for some
time and I guess got arrested for drugs out there. Her mother had died of cancer
a few years before and her father wouldn’t answer the phone for her. She
called my house number as she knew it by heart in since she used to crank my
house. I called her dad for her and begged him to go get her out of jail. This
guy sort of always liked me and saw me as a good influence. M never thanked me
or anything. 

There was another time her and me were fighting on the phone for some reason.
This was maybe circa 2006. My mom ended up getting involved and jumping on the
line and talking some shit to M. M told her that for her words she was going to
fuck with her car. Sure enough, two days later, all the windows to my mom’s
car were bricked. Fat police here didn’t do anything because we didn’t have
a camera and didn’t see her do it. 

I see M as a sociopath because people who don’t know her find her kind and
charming. Then when she screws then over, they are shocked. She is very good at
hiding her true colors when she first meets people in order to get what she
wants. 

She is not entirely bad though. She was supportive during a hard time in my
life. Actually, she helped me out two or three times. Overall, she is just a
person who is out for herself 99.9 percent of the time and doesn’t care who
she hurts. 

Case 2: Now, I am tempted to say my ex was a sociopath. He stole large sums of
money from his ex business partner/ boss. He was love bombing this older guy who
was sort of just looking for a son type. The old guy was a pig too who tried to
hug me when we were alone, but he was good to my ex and didn’t deserve to be
scammed. My ex did have many morals though. A sense of duty towards his family,
respect for the elderly and gave to charity when he could. M on the other hand
did not really have a moral compass. 

Also note: I’ve met people who had some traits of being sociopaths such as a
complete lack of morals. However, in since these people are not charismatic and
don’t pretend to like others, I see them as more borderline personality
disorder. One guy had an anger problem and would get paranoid and start calling
others all these terrible names when he would start to engage in borderline
“splitting” and then he would calm down. 

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Fri, 26 Apr 2024 11:26:31 -0700

zerosugar
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To this day, M will not admit to setting me up and claims the baseball player
chick hated me because I called her friend a name. I really didn’t call
anybody anything as I was very introverted during this time. When I saw M as an
adult, I tried to press her to admit that  it was her. She wouldn’t. I even
found the fb of the girl. This girl also wouldn’t take accountability. 

This wasn’t the only time M set me up. She had some other older chick Samantha
beat me up before. Later Samantha and I became friends and she admitted to me
that M begged her to beat me up. Now the fight with Samantha was more of a girl
fight just her pulling my hair and pushing me and stuff so I can forgive
Samantha, but I will never forgive the baseball player for what she did. She is
such an ugly lady now and I’m so happy to see. M’s latest man is some ugly
dude in his 50s who sort of looks like an ugly version of Bela Lugosi. 

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Fri, 26 Apr 2024 11:28:54 -0700

zerosugar
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Also if you watch the movie Thirteen, M was very much like Nikki Reed’s
character. When she wants to scam people as an adult, she tries to tell people
she has changed. Bs. She has only gotten worse.
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