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Fri, 29 Nov 2024 06:03:11 -0800
whiteguyinchina from private IP, post
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Childless married people
I have three friends who are married, for many years, yet do not have kids
because they do not want to. Not because of infertility or medical reasons.
I have a hard time understanding this. They are basically the couples from
idiocracy, high income and educated. Meanwhile cletus is fucking the whole
cheerleading squad.
Fri, 29 Nov 2024 06:16:49 -0800
Andy from
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Reply #14944907 It's tragic when smart,
successful couples choose not to have kids. My wife and I only have one kid so
far, which is sad because we are the type of people who should be having more
than one kid. Fingers crossed.
Fri, 29 Nov 2024 09:18:47 -0800
zerosugar
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Reply #10383178 It’s possible they do have
fertility issues, but just do not want to say so. Now they cope by claiming life
is easier without kids. Remember when people criticize others for not having
kids, they are not hurting the child free by choice, but the sterile. The child
free by choice are quite confident in their decision. My father had an uncle
with no children. He lived a very good rich life and left his home to my father
when he died as well as a bank account with lots of money. Then again, he was a
man with many nieces and nephews and my father being the closest to him. I
believe maybe he wanted kids when he was younger, but it’s possible either his
wife or him couldn’t have them. I still think he lived a great comfortable
life well into his 90s.
My aunt (mom’s issues) has been married 30 plus years, now close to 40. Her
and her husband never had kids and he was too cheap to go the IVF route, but I
believe a sperm donor would have been their only solution as he had some issues.
He didn’t want children not biologically related to him. My aunt stayed with
him. They are sort of crazy dog people in Alabama now. I feel bad for my aunt. I
didn’t want her with him and think she could have done much better for herself
when she was younger. She was prettier than my mom and me. I am not sure what
kind of mom she would have made though as she is nuts. Her husband is some
former military dude from Alabama (heritage American) who later worked with
NASA. His family are really nice people, but we really have nothing in common
with him and while they are nice, they also don’t understand family in the
same way.
My grandmother always said and maybe she said this to comfort my aunt that kids
don’t bring you to paradise. My grandmother had 6. Clergy have no kids and
neither did Jesus.
Fri, 29 Nov 2024 09:24:43 -0800
zerosugar
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Reply #11963627 George Washington also had no
kids and I believe Andrew Jackson had no biological children. Remember that the
childless are still whole people even without children. Some cultures who
believe in reincarnation believe the childless are in their last incarnation on
earth and hence don’t want to leave anything behind.
It’s also quite possible if they are truly fertile, they don’t love each
other enough to want to reproduce. Some people will stay married just out of
convenience.
Fri, 29 Nov 2024 09:28:04 -0800
marlon from
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Reply #17271898 only rednecks & religious freaks
have kids. blacks use abortion & are too feminist.
Fri, 29 Nov 2024 09:44:27 -0800
zerosugar
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Reply #13129340 mom’s sister I meant to say
lol.
anyway, people all handle things differently. my aunt turned towards bitterness
and hatred towards me because i’m her sister’s daughter. my aunt could have
had kids though if she really wanted! she was married since she was 23!!! so no
clue why she is angry.
my dad’s uncle was the opposite though. he really was the nicest of his
brothers and lived the longest life. i think he was kinder to me than my own
grandmother. he would walk the mall on the weekends and always gave me money
when he saw me. just a nice peaceful man.
my cousin (mom’s brother’s daughter) who is my oldest cousin used to sort of
be like my aunt. very mean to the kids of others. she was born in 75 so much
older than the rest of us. her sister was born in 77, but became a teenage mom.
anyway this cousin born in 75 had a car accident when she was like 30 in 2005.
she had been married and divorced with no kids. she was bitter for a long time.
then circa 2018, she met a guy at home depot and had a son in her 40s. i cannot
imagine her as a mom. she is no longer with the guy though and i think used him
for the kid. my cousin was really into the party life though. raves and
substances. i haven’t spoken to her in years because of some of the cruel
things she did throughout the years to me and other cousins and even cruelty
toward my grandmother and mother. the kid hasn’t changed her. let her stay
with her mother’s side of the family.
Fri, 29 Nov 2024 09:56:20 -0800
zerosugar
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Reply #13087672 @marlonTest black
women also have many children, but they also get fibroids for some reason. black
man definitely have many children. maybe some black women are having less kids
as they become more educated. i worked at cps for a while. just something to do
on my days off from law school and while i waited for bar results. i actually
loved teaching at the black schools more because both the admin and the kids
were so nice and funny. the days were eventful. there was this security guard
there who would always talk to me. he was this young dark skinned black guy.
maybe my age or a little older. one day two of the boys came up to me and told
me not to trust him that he has 8 kids with 5 women and 6 of the kids go to the
school. now black guys aren’t my thing. i’m not racist, but i just prefer
italian with a preference towards who also has arbereshe origins. of course i
was open to all and most of my bfs not italian, but i would just never go with
anybody.
Fri, 29 Nov 2024 09:56:47 -0800
zerosugar
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Reply #19157267 anybody not something close to me
Sat, 30 Nov 2024 05:48:11 -0800
whiteguyinchina from private IP
Reply #13062950 These are close friends so I
would hope they would be open with infertility issues. I would certainly not
judge them on that account, that is another heartwrenching journey altogether.
That is not the case. They simply do not want kids. It just seems like a lonely
life to me, that is all. And they are such good people that could raise such
good humans, that it is a shame to have their family line die out. And yes, they
are either only children or the sibling is gay. I know their parents and wonder
what they think as well.
Also I have spent a lot of time in China so kids and money and education are
like the thing.
Tue, 03 Dec 2024 11:41:16 -0800
shithead
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Reply #12156361 I'm 48, and will not be raising
children. I have a lifestyle I never dreamed would be possible, and there's no
place for my own children in it.
Besides, my role as Crazy Uncle to my nieces and nephews is close to perfect.
Tue, 03 Dec 2024 12:25:23 -0800
zerosugar
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Reply #13696357 I find it interesting how
parent/child dynamics are changing with the Tiktok generation advocating for
people who committed parricide. Now obviously, these are crazy situations gone
off the rails, but still sad that as a society we are glorifying kids who kill
their parents. These days it’s not even guaranteed children will care for
their parents in old age. That may drive some people to think kids are
unnecessary. Babies don’t stay small and cute forever, so I really see only
two motivating factors for children:
1) If you have great genetics to spread them.
2) To have a child to care for you in old age. Keep in mind, some sons will
default to the wife’s family so you better hope you have a girl or a son who
stays single until later in life or who has a wife who wants to join your
family.
Mostly, we want to see ourselves in kids. Unfortunately, the modern generations
are getting more and more bad. My advice to new parents is don’t name your son
or daughter after a beloved grandparent or parent or other relative. Oftentimes,
these young kids will bring shame to the name. I’m happy I’m named after
nobody. My cousin brought lots of shame to my grandmother’s name and was
nothing like her. My uncle made a huge mistake. I won’t get into the
differences because it’s too infuriating.
Tue, 03 Dec 2024 12:55:28 -0800
shithead
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Reply #12952095 How would it be a personal
motivation to spread one's good genes? What would be in it for me? Seems like a
huge investment in a vanity project that doesn't interest me.
Tue, 03 Dec 2024 13:19:11 -0800
marlon from
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Reply #14128126 gonna keep my pants on. been so
afraid of having kids that i am still a virgin.
women want babies like men want sex, tomorrow be damned.
Tue, 03 Dec 2024 13:20:51 -0800
Blee from
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Reply #19166233 I'm missing the kids gene. Don't
have them, don't want them, never did. I like kids fine, I spoil the heck out of
my nieces and nephews, and like hanging out with them. But when Christmas / the
movie / dinner is over, they leave. And that's delightful. Through my 20's and
most of my 30's, not having kids let me pick up and go on tour with the band
whenever I wanted to. No fuss, no babysitter, no complaining. I think it's a
little insulting when folks hit me with the notion that there must be something
wrong with me / us. Don't feel sorry for me, I still see Pixar movies and go the
amusement park, I just don't have to worry about little monsters tagging along.
Tue, 03 Dec 2024 13:53:39 -0800
marlon from
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Reply #19656209 my breeder bum-fucking fat
redneck sister has four of them, i helped them move a few times but i never
spent a dime on them, but i'm sure most of the $$ i gave to my mom over the yrs
ended up going to them. oh well i did get to hold a baby in my arms.
Tue, 03 Dec 2024 14:45:12 -0800
zerosugar
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Reply #10640580 @shitheadTest
hahha yeah you may be right. even if somebody has good genes, there really is no
gain in spreading unless you are some paid sperm donor or narcissistic enough to
think your good genes can better the world.
Tue, 03 Dec 2024 14:52:35 -0800
zerosugar
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Reply #14476707 How sad. Debbie Nelson aka Debbie
Mathers died. Eminem’s mom. That poor lady raised Eminem alone for him to
defame her in songs and not give her nothing. She sued him for defamation after
he continuously made songs painting her as a drug addict. She only won $25,000
at the time. They later made peace, but lately I have come across many men who
attack their mothers but give free passes to fathers who were absent. Sad! Then
again, I knew a single dad too whose ex wife joined a cult and he was hit by his
kids while the wife lived her life.
Anyway, even if Em’s mom really was a pill popper, she was just a poor lady
trying to cope with raising a son alone. I wish he attacked his absent father as
much as her.
Headlights was his apology song though. Sort of sad to listen to now. Parents
can raise a million kids and kids sometimes just bring grief.
https://youtu.be/7bDLIV96LD4?feature=shared
On the other hand, this was one of the original dis songs.
https://youtu.be/YtUEUDqxc88?feature=shared
Tue, 03 Dec 2024 14:53:18 -0800
marlon from
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Reply #14800249 Down Syndrome is big in my
family. way too many i've seen, even scarier is how nobody talks about it.
Tue, 03 Dec 2024 14:57:14 -0800
zerosugar
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Reply #19689856 Even his apology song to his mom
was cringe though and still sort of an attack on her character: Oh well.
That’s life.
Tue, 03 Dec 2024 15:17:48 -0800
marlon from
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Reply #13501178 https://momsspaghetti.com/
Tue, 03 Dec 2024 22:29:04 -0800
whiteguyinchina from private IP
Reply #11923359 Eminem is a typical Midwest
trailer park kid. Lots of disfunction there.
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