Fri, 29 Nov 2024 06:03:11 -0800 whiteguyinchina from private IP, post #16651282 š® /all Childless married people I have three friends who are married, for many years, yet do not have kids because they do not want to. Not because of infertility or medical reasons. I have a hard time understanding this. They are basically the couples from idiocracy, high income and educated. Meanwhile cletus is fucking the whole cheerleading squad. Fri, 29 Nov 2024 06:16:49 -0800 Andy from private IP Reply #14944907 It's tragic when smart, successful couples choose not to have kids. My wife and I only have one kid so far, which is sad because we are the type of people who should be having more than one kid. Fingers crossed. Fri, 29 Nov 2024 09:18:47 -0800 zerosugar from private IP Reply #10383178 Itās possible they do have fertility issues, but just do not want to say so. Now they cope by claiming life is easier without kids. Remember when people criticize others for not having kids, they are not hurting the child free by choice, but the sterile. The child free by choice are quite confident in their decision. My father had an uncle with no children. He lived a very good rich life and left his home to my father when he died as well as a bank account with lots of money. Then again, he was a man with many nieces and nephews and my father being the closest to him. I believe maybe he wanted kids when he was younger, but itās possible either his wife or him couldnāt have them. I still think he lived a great comfortable life well into his 90s. My aunt (momās issues) has been married 30 plus years, now close to 40. Her and her husband never had kids and he was too cheap to go the IVF route, but I believe a sperm donor would have been their only solution as he had some issues. He didnāt want children not biologically related to him. My aunt stayed with him. They are sort of crazy dog people in Alabama now. I feel bad for my aunt. I didnāt want her with him and think she could have done much better for herself when she was younger. She was prettier than my mom and me. I am not sure what kind of mom she would have made though as she is nuts. Her husband is some former military dude from Alabama (heritage American) who later worked with NASA. His family are really nice people, but we really have nothing in common with him and while they are nice, they also donāt understand family in the same way. My grandmother always said and maybe she said this to comfort my aunt that kids donāt bring you to paradise. My grandmother had 6. Clergy have no kids and neither did Jesus. Fri, 29 Nov 2024 09:24:43 -0800 zerosugar from private IP Reply #11963627 George Washington also had no kids and I believe Andrew Jackson had no biological children. Remember that the childless are still whole people even without children. Some cultures who believe in reincarnation believe the childless are in their last incarnation on earth and hence donāt want to leave anything behind. Itās also quite possible if they are truly fertile, they donāt love each other enough to want to reproduce. Some people will stay married just out of convenience. Fri, 29 Nov 2024 09:28:04 -0800 marlon from private IP Reply #17271898 only rednecks & religious freaks have kids. blacks use abortion & are too feminist. Fri, 29 Nov 2024 09:44:27 -0800 zerosugar from private IP Reply #13129340 momās sister I meant to say lol. anyway, people all handle things differently. my aunt turned towards bitterness and hatred towards me because iām her sisterās daughter. my aunt could have had kids though if she really wanted! she was married since she was 23!!! so no clue why she is angry. my dadās uncle was the opposite though. he really was the nicest of his brothers and lived the longest life. i think he was kinder to me than my own grandmother. he would walk the mall on the weekends and always gave me money when he saw me. just a nice peaceful man. my cousin (momās brotherās daughter) who is my oldest cousin used to sort of be like my aunt. very mean to the kids of others. she was born in 75 so much older than the rest of us. her sister was born in 77, but became a teenage mom. anyway this cousin born in 75 had a car accident when she was like 30 in 2005. she had been married and divorced with no kids. she was bitter for a long time. then circa 2018, she met a guy at home depot and had a son in her 40s. i cannot imagine her as a mom. she is no longer with the guy though and i think used him for the kid. my cousin was really into the party life though. raves and substances. i havenāt spoken to her in years because of some of the cruel things she did throughout the years to me and other cousins and even cruelty toward my grandmother and mother. the kid hasnāt changed her. let her stay with her motherās side of the family. Fri, 29 Nov 2024 09:56:20 -0800 zerosugar from private IP Reply #13087672 @marlonTest black women also have many children, but they also get fibroids for some reason. black man definitely have many children. maybe some black women are having less kids as they become more educated. i worked at cps for a while. just something to do on my days off from law school and while i waited for bar results. i actually loved teaching at the black schools more because both the admin and the kids were so nice and funny. the days were eventful. there was this security guard there who would always talk to me. he was this young dark skinned black guy. maybe my age or a little older. one day two of the boys came up to me and told me not to trust him that he has 8 kids with 5 women and 6 of the kids go to the school. now black guys arenāt my thing. iām not racist, but i just prefer italian with a preference towards who also has arbereshe origins. of course i was open to all and most of my bfs not italian, but i would just never go with anybody. Fri, 29 Nov 2024 09:56:47 -0800 zerosugar from private IP Reply #19157267 anybody not something close to me Sat, 30 Nov 2024 05:48:11 -0800 whiteguyinchina from private IP Reply #13062950 š These are close friends so I would hope they would be open with infertility issues. I would certainly not judge them on that account, that is another heartwrenching journey altogether. That is not the case. They simply do not want kids. It just seems like a lonely life to me, that is all. And they are such good people that could raise such good humans, that it is a shame to have their family line die out. And yes, they are either only children or the sibling is gay. I know their parents and wonder what they think as well. Also I have spent a lot of time in China so kids and money and education are like the thing. Tue, 03 Dec 2024 11:41:16 -0800 shithead from private IP Reply #12156361 š¤£ I'm 48, and will not be raising children. I have a lifestyle I never dreamed would be possible, and there's no place for my own children in it. Besides, my role as Crazy Uncle to my nieces and nephews is close to perfect. Tue, 03 Dec 2024 12:25:23 -0800 zerosugar from private IP Reply #13696357 I find it interesting how parent/child dynamics are changing with the Tiktok generation advocating for people who committed parricide. Now obviously, these are crazy situations gone off the rails, but still sad that as a society we are glorifying kids who kill their parents. These days itās not even guaranteed children will care for their parents in old age. That may drive some people to think kids are unnecessary. Babies donāt stay small and cute forever, so I really see only two motivating factors for children: 1) If you have great genetics to spread them. 2) To have a child to care for you in old age. Keep in mind, some sons will default to the wifeās family so you better hope you have a girl or a son who stays single until later in life or who has a wife who wants to join your family. Mostly, we want to see ourselves in kids. Unfortunately, the modern generations are getting more and more bad. My advice to new parents is donāt name your son or daughter after a beloved grandparent or parent or other relative. Oftentimes, these young kids will bring shame to the name. Iām happy Iām named after nobody. My cousin brought lots of shame to my grandmotherās name and was nothing like her. My uncle made a huge mistake. I wonāt get into the differences because itās too infuriating. Tue, 03 Dec 2024 12:55:28 -0800 shithead from private IP Reply #12952095 How would it be a personal motivation to spread one's good genes? What would be in it for me? Seems like a huge investment in a vanity project that doesn't interest me. Tue, 03 Dec 2024 13:19:11 -0800 marlon from private IP Reply #14128126 š¤£ š¤£ gonna keep my pants on. been so afraid of having kids that i am still a virgin. women want babies like men want sex, tomorrow be damned. Tue, 03 Dec 2024 13:20:51 -0800 Blee from private IP Reply #19166233 š® I'm missing the kids gene. Don't have them, don't want them, never did. I like kids fine, I spoil the heck out of my nieces and nephews, and like hanging out with them. But when Christmas / the movie / dinner is over, they leave. And that's delightful. Through my 20's and most of my 30's, not having kids let me pick up and go on tour with the band whenever I wanted to. No fuss, no babysitter, no complaining. I think it's a little insulting when folks hit me with the notion that there must be something wrong with me / us. Don't feel sorry for me, I still see Pixar movies and go the amusement park, I just don't have to worry about little monsters tagging along. Tue, 03 Dec 2024 13:53:39 -0800 marlon from private IP Reply #19656209 my breeder bum-fucking fat redneck sister has four of them, i helped them move a few times but i never spent a dime on them, but i'm sure most of the $$ i gave to my mom over the yrs ended up going to them. oh well i did get to hold a baby in my arms. Tue, 03 Dec 2024 14:45:12 -0800 zerosugar from private IP Reply #10640580 @shitheadTest hahha yeah you may be right. even if somebody has good genes, there really is no gain in spreading unless you are some paid sperm donor or narcissistic enough to think your good genes can better the world. Tue, 03 Dec 2024 14:52:35 -0800 zerosugar from private IP Reply #14476707 How sad. Debbie Nelson aka Debbie Mathers died. Eminemās mom. That poor lady raised Eminem alone for him to defame her in songs and not give her nothing. She sued him for defamation after he continuously made songs painting her as a drug addict. She only won $25,000 at the time. They later made peace, but lately I have come across many men who attack their mothers but give free passes to fathers who were absent. Sad! Then again, I knew a single dad too whose ex wife joined a cult and he was hit by his kids while the wife lived her life. Anyway, even if Emās mom really was a pill popper, she was just a poor lady trying to cope with raising a son alone. I wish he attacked his absent father as much as her. Headlights was his apology song though. Sort of sad to listen to now. Parents can raise a million kids and kids sometimes just bring grief. https://youtu.be/7bDLIV96LD4?feature=shared On the other hand, this was one of the original dis songs. https://youtu.be/YtUEUDqxc88?feature=shared Tue, 03 Dec 2024 14:53:18 -0800 marlon from private IP Reply #14800249 Down Syndrome is big in my family. way too many i've seen, even scarier is how nobody talks about it. Tue, 03 Dec 2024 14:57:14 -0800 zerosugar from private IP Reply #19689856 Even his apology song to his mom was cringe though and still sort of an attack on her character: Oh well. Thatās life. Tue, 03 Dec 2024 15:17:48 -0800 marlon from private IP Reply #13501178 https://momsspaghetti.com/ Tue, 03 Dec 2024 22:29:04 -0800 whiteguyinchina from private IP Reply #11923359 Eminem is a typical Midwest trailer park kid. Lots of disfunction there.Replies require login.
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